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The words she said

Illustrated Story B24, with a text transcript.

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Six-panel illustrated story, The words she said. After delirium, Frances, a middle-aged white woman, remembers little of intensive care. Her partner remembers upsetting things she said. They recognise that their memories differ. He explains the hurt without blaming her for being ill. A doctor helps explain delirium’s effects. The couple leave space for further conversation rather than instant resolution. Footer: Delirium can leave different memories for each of you.

A person may remember little of delirium, while a relative remembers words or accusations that were painful to hear. Both people may need help to understand what happened.

Understanding that delirium affected the person’s thinking does not automatically remove the hurt. A conversation with the treating team or another appropriate professional may help explain what happened. There is no need to force a discussion before someone is ready, or to pretend that one conversation answers every question.

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  1. Panel 1. After delirium.

    • Frances: I hardly remember intensive care.

  2. Panel 2.

    • Ben: Some things you said stayed with me.

  3. Panel 3.

    • Frances: We remember different parts.

  4. Panel 4.

    • Ben: I know you were ill. I’m still upset by it.

  5. Panel 5.

    • Doctor: Delirium can affect beliefs and behaviour. Let’s talk it through.

  6. Panel 6. They leave room for another conversation.

Bottom band. Delirium can leave different memories for each of you.

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